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Talking about Traumatic Births
For those that have experienced a traumatic birth , it can be hard to open up and share. It is important to find a way to share your story – for your own healing and because your story matters. The importance of storytelling We tell stories about what happened to us to help us make sense of our experiences and our life. The stories we tell shape and reinforce how we see, interpret and interact with the world. Birth is a life altering and universal event. To some, it is cons
Melissa Margolin
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How a Baby Changes the Family System
The addition of a new child has a tremendous impact on the family system. Each individual in the system has a new relationship, a new role, and new responsibilities. And as each person adjusts to all this newness, their relationships with one another shift. It is inevitable. But it does not have to be bad. We cannot predict what that change will look and feel like, but we can look at trends and make good, educated guesses. And we can have strategies in place for recognizing c
Melissa Margolin
Jan 222 min read


Pregnancy After Trauma
If you are pregnant and you’ve experienced a traumatic birth , sexual trauma, pregnancy loss or infant loss, you may be wondering how you...
Melissa Margolin
Mar 27, 20252 min read


When to see a birth trauma specialist
What is birth trauma? Birth trauma is not an official diagnosis, but rather a phrase used for individuals who experienced trauma during...
Melissa Margolin
Mar 17, 20253 min read


Overstimulated All the Time
I know better than to wait until 5 PM to figure out the dinner plan. And yet, here I was at 5 PM with 3 hungry toddlers - all pulling at...
Melissa Margolin
Jan 22, 20254 min read


Who Has Time for Self-Care?!
Some days are an endless cycle of cleaning up messes, soothing children, and making sure everyone else’s needs are met. We change...
Melissa Margolin
Jan 16, 20253 min read


The Shame Spiral in Motherhood
For me, the biggest myth of motherhood is that I should be able to do it all by myself. The mental load for taking care of a young human...
Melissa Margolin
Sep 11, 20242 min read


Letting Go of Resentment with Radical Acceptance
Having a baby to care for can be the ultimate test of your patience – especially when you’re running on very little sleep, you haven’t...
Melissa Margolin
Sep 4, 20242 min read


Do I need a specialist?
If you have found yourself here, you have likely concluded that you need more therapeutic support than you are currently getting. If you...
Melissa Margolin
Aug 27, 20243 min read


Managing Anxiety During a High Risk Pregnancy
If you’ve been diagnosed with a high risk pregnancy, you may be feeling anxious about the health and safety of both you and your growing...
Melissa Margolin
Aug 19, 20244 min read
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